Friday, August 12

my aunties taught me well...


The other night I was leaving a family dinner...one of who knows how many in the last month...I don't say that with any frustration...in fact just the opposite.  I am so grateful for all the time that I've been able to spend with my family this summer.  Whether it is family dinner, watching Lost Horizons, playing at the lake or eating awesome homemade fish tacos...I feel so blessed.  But I digress...as I was leaving family dinner and firming up plans to see my cousin next week in Cedar City I thought about the fact that even now, at age 32 I am excited to hang out with my cousins...who are all at least 5 years younger than me...most of them a lot more than that...but I love it.  Being so much older it is kind of like being an aunt (which I am...and this applies to my niece and nephew as well).  I thought about that and thought about my own aunties.  Especially my mom's two sisters.  Growing up I spent most of my summers in Utah.  And while I was here I spent a LOT of time with both Steph and Jenn.  I always felt like I was the center of their attention...even when they had kids...I always feel so important around them...because I know I am important to them. It makes me feel pretty awesome that they wanted to spend time with me.  And so when it comes to my cousins and my nephew and niece (and any future ones I might have) I hope to always be able to express that same love that I've always felt from all of my aunts.  At age 32 I am happy to say that I know they all love me and really do care so much about me.  I hope that my cousins and nieces and nephews always feel that from me.  So to Steph and Jenn...thank you for being my initial examples...and to the rest of you...thank you for continuing with their example.

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